If you have friends to enjoy the wonderful time together for drinking, having dinner, hiking, etc. That’s great! The drinking might be the easiest one to act, you don’t need to care about the weather, careful prepare, and personal hobbies. People are all very busy for life, job, money, most communication throughs the fast internet.
The funny thing is that I’m not good at drink wine, includes the beer. My body lacks of one kind of enzyme which is used to digest the wine. But I like drinking, and enjoy the happy time in the bar. I like the lightless bar, not for doing some wrong thing, but for hiding my red face 
Recently I started to drink the tea, that’s more traditional. There are many simple tea room in Chengdu, drinking tea is a popular way of relax. In other place, drinking tea is treated as an advanced life style, especial for some gentleman. I haven’t share tea with friends, so it’s simple, quite and alone drinking. So far so good.
Street BBQ is also relaxed, but sometimes that’s not health. It’s good to organize some BBQ party at home, and prepare the meat by ourself.
